Jul 03, 2021
A relationship is like a roller coaster ride and as a roller coaster it has a lot of ups and downs in it. Usually women’s are accused of creating these lows but in reality men’s are equally responsible for creating this vacuum. In relationship men sometimes start behaving emotionally distant, making women’s feel like something is pulling away their man. Women do it too but this emotional distance occurs more in men.
WHAT IS CAUSING THIS MEN PULL AWAY?
This men pull away can occur due to variety of reasons but mainly it occurs due to the contact of two different approaches for e.g. what is right and tempting according to a woman, may not be right and tempting acc. to a man. These diverse approaches if not handled at proper time may turn into an internal chaos and may consume your man (because they are more ego sensitive), causing emotional distance from you. The another reason of your man pulling away can be the pressure of giving a commitment as men’s are very hesitant and confuse in making a commitment. Besides these two reasons other small but significant things can also cause this emotional distance like lack of time, lot of stress ,lack of efforts to name a few. There is even a scientific reason behind this men pull away. Acc. to scientist when men bonds with someone so much it causes them to feel stressed and uncomfortable as their testosterone level decreases due to Oxytocin, making men stressed and vulnerable.
HOW TO GET YOUR MAN BACK?
The very first step a woman needs to take is, observe and give your man a space to relax and make him understand what he wants. With this initial step, thing will start getting lighten up and will provide him relief. Another thing women should have to do is that make your mind understand that men and women function differently. Never force a man to work, live and breathe like you. Women should make peace with the fact the he is a MEN, the reason you want to have a relationship was to experience the masculine energy but sometimes women pressurize them to be like them making them frustrated and in the end they start withdrawing. If any of these things is not working then the last resort is to approach him and ask him directly. But when you step in make sure you talk effectively but calmly don’t be over the top. Make him comfortable and then ask him the problem and then work on it.
HOW TO AVOID THIS MAN PULL AWAY CONDITION?
To prevent this situation to occur set your man free, don’t cage him, the more you try to hold them, the more they try to fly away. Men’s like freedom; it makes them feel powerful and masculine. This masculine effect ultimately draws them to women.